What would you do??

Before I got pregnant this time, everyone asked if this was the last one;when I'd say '4 & no more' they'd say are you getting tubal. Now that I am 13 1/2wks pregnant everyone I call (locally) says get the tubal. My friend in Ok yelled at me and said make him get the vasectomy, eventhough he said it isn't an option and not worth talking about. After I had my 1st apt I wondered why I wanted another baby, I have 3 wonderful kids already. Now the more I'm pressured to get a tubal the more I wish I wasn't pregnant. I was thinking of getting the Copper IUD, but I don't know if my insurance will cover it and I don't have any $. No form of birth control sounds like the best option for me. I'm afraid with the pill I'll get baby fever, like I always do and stop taking them. If I get the Paraguard I don't know if there will be complications like with the Mirena. The depo drove me to depression after having it for 5 yrs. Essure is too permanent and I've heard of alot of complications with it.