Predictably gay behaviour?

Someone told me they were disappointed by my "predictably gay behaviour" for being a diva worshipper and I though this was a little unfair, especially when the merits and achievements of men throughout history recieves more than it's fair share of recognition. Someone needs to provide some balance somewhere? We're not talking Kylie or C Aguleirra here, I mean women of pioneers of substance and genius. I know talent should be appreciated whatever package it comes in but I cant help being irresistably pleased when it comes in female form. I know of countless other gay men whose attitudes towards women range from disinterseted to outright misogynist so can diva worship really be described as predictably gay behaviour?